A woman, Tantheta Okpalike, hs made her younger brother sign an undertaking to deal with him if he ever molests her daughters while staying with her.
She stated on her Facebook page that she had to do it after her uncle molested her as a child and she owes it to her daughters to keep them safe.
She also disclosed that after she faced a lot of tongue-lashing by people who pointed out that what she did might have a psychological effect on her brother, she apologized to him.
Read what she wrote below;
“I am putting this here, with his permission though.
Our last born is a boy.
But because I was molested by 2 of my uncles, I am not giving room for any form, on my children, including my house help.
I don’t allow my brothers visit me, because of the likelihood of molesting my girls.
We even cut down on allowing any form of visitors coming in, in our absence, or sleeping over.
So, this industrious boy, wants to come make his own money, to save up to be able to write his WAEC, after covid, and my being raw didn’t stop him.
He has visited me before, but we talked over the phone, and I recorded his agreement in our discussion.
He is like a son to me, because I was the one that gave him his first and follow up sex education.
I’ve also told him about protecting girls from rape, and not cheering any of his pals up, who he catches trying to do that.
I guess this would be another opportunity to talk more on that.
Even with this his undertaking, I’ll still not let him be alone with them.
I don’t even want any story.
I don’t want to keep the “yam” any where in sight, close to the “goat”.
In as much as he has largely trained himself to be a disciplined young man, I’ll be like a hawk to my kids.
#Onyelechiya”
