A female sexologist has warned a perceived abuser that she cuts outs penis and breast of sexual abusers and gets paid for it.
She said this while threatening a grown up man who held a 7 year old girl inappropriately. He further went ahead to educate the mother who doesn’t see anything wrong with it until she called her attention to the impending danger if not addressed.
Read her tweet, “I went to buy satchet tomatoes yesterday and I entered the shop,I saw a man holding a girl of about 7 years on her waist.
I wasn’t comfortable at all.
Me: where is your mama?
Girl:She’s the one frying akara there
Me: Oga wetin you follow her dey talk wet be say u must touch her waist?
Oga: She be ur pikin? Mind your business.
Me:I know your type and this time you don fail”
“I asked the girl to take me to her mum’s kiosk, I narrated what happened and why I wasn’t comfortable with the act and her mum goes “ Oga na good man e dey dash my pikin plenty things,e dey help me some evening when I dey fry akara carry my pikin go house till I finish work,If I reach house I carry her go our own flat”
I had to explain what the GROOMING STAGE in sexual abuse cycle to her.
It’s a stage where abusers familiarize themselves with victims and the victims family members to gain trust and easy access to the victims.
She was really thankful and oh yeah my mum said I took long to get ordinary sachet tomatoes but it was worth it. I left a final word to the uncle that I am a rape avenger, I cut out penis/breast of abusers and we get paid.
P.S watch your children including YOUR SONS.”
It is advisable for parents to look out for their children as many children are abused by a familiar face that they are comfortable with.