A South African man has taken to Twitter to tell his divorce story after his wife of 2 years insisted she wanted to be in a relationship with her ex.
The man identified as @DMlamla on the platform wrote that he and his ex-wife dated for seven years and were married for two years.
He had to let to her go as it was obvious she wasn’t in love with him.
Read his full story below
”My story for divorcing my wife We were 7 years in a relationship and 2 years in marriage. She got a job then all of a sudden I started seeing a sudden change in her. Kanti that time useqomile.
I caught her more than 3 times with the same guy but she kept on saying they have broken up but they were still dating secretly. I tried fixing things up with her but failed. I called my family they failed.
I called her family they failed as well and said I should see what I to do about it because bona bahlulekile. I sat her down and asked her to please be free to me and just speak like a friend why enza kaso.
She then told me that it’s hard for her to dump her ex because she still loves this guy. Imagine she even went as far as suggesting we should be in an open relationship until after we reach 30 years, her reasons was that she got married young and she can’t leave her ex because they are both in love with each other.
I was so broken and hurt. It was the first time I cried cos of a woman. I begged her to love me. I remember kneeling and begging her to love me. At that time we stayed together maybe about 6 months without sex We would go to church putting rings like nothing is wrong.
What made me to decide to leave or she must leave was when she told me that this guy was her ideal man. That me I was just a good guy and had potential to be a good husband but yena all these years she wasn’t happy.
I did all I could in my power. I remember hiring a car to chase them and when I get to her work she just said “unedrama shame”
But what I can say is that YOU CAN NEVER BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T DESERVE YOU.”
