Nigerian business consultant have reacted to the ‘assurance’ anthem everybody seems to be singing today. She weighed in on the matter that if Davido have been dating Chioma for five years, that means he disrespected her for years with the babymamas and suddenly loving her. She said that a faithful boyfriend who sends a girl money when needed is goals. She called on girls to redefine their goals.
All over my timeline… it’s Davido, Chioma and Porsche of 45 million that I see.
Most of the girls are tapping into the blessing while the guys are shouting “Chioma cooks day and night for David… but you don’t want to cook for your guy”.
I’m just here wondering if we are all processing the same information.
Davido says he has been dating Chioma for 5 years.
Within the 5 years, he got 2 different women pregnant… had 2 children by them… had other girlfriends he flaunted openly… suddenly all these things don’t matter any more and everyone is shouting ASSURANCE… GOALS!!!
What goals exactly? To be openly disrespected for years while in a relationship, and suddenly he decides the love is driving him crazy? To keep your relationship low key for years while flaunting other girls and one day he realizes his mistake and decides he wants to give you lifetime assurance and a Porsche??? What exactly is the goals here??
Someone posted “Dear girls, it’s better to be the main chick than the side chick. After 2 baby mamas, Davido still came back to his girl. Love is real.” Really??? Because of Porsche, exotic trips and shopping? Suffering has confused all of us in this country.
To all the girls looking for their own Davido, be careful what you wish for. If this is the precedent you want for your relationship I applaud you. We must be mindful of the type of prayers we say.
Your faithful boyfriend that sends you 10k when you need it is goals. Don’t be deceived by the glitz and glamor. What is the context? What is the content?
May we not crave relationships that will break our hearts and belief in humanity just for some temporary glamour.
To all those who are in real love relationships… you all are the MVP!!! Keep winning.
Love over everything.