While making a case for men that are sexually assaulted, a man has narrated how he was assaulted by his toxic girlfriend severally.
He shared his story on his Twitter page and stated how she put up so many excuses to assault and subsequently injure him in the process.
He further shared how he could not fight back as he doesn’t believe in hitting a woman and paid the price dearly.
He shared;
‘Men get Sexually abused, men get assaulted too by Women and we really need to start speaking up.
Late 2016, i met a beautiful lady with the back side of a caterpillar. The truth be told, my motivation to enter a relationship with her was the big bumbum. You can’t resist.
We kept dragging the “let’s date, let’s date” till she finally agreed. I saw all the red flags Triangular flag on post but I didn’t despair, i had a goal.
Any slight provocation, she will talk talk talk, she will hit me hit me and start threatening me with suicide. We had a party to go one time and because of small argument, she threw the aso ebi at me on Ikorodu Road to the bewilderment of passerby, I was so ashamed but I didn’t leave. I still went to beg her. Emi ode
The D-day of the party came. My friends were around, at 2 pm, they left for the party since they for us (she was doing makeup). When she finally finished, a call came into my phone and it was another girl, she asked me to put the phone on loudspeaker which I didn’t concur, next thing, she yanked the phone from me and twai twai, 2 slaps.
han han, kini mo se?
With her big body, she pushed me to the floor, sat on me while raining me blows. I had that useless mindset of not hitting back but not anymore, if you hit me first now…ajeku iya.
She rushed to the window and removed the curtain rod, Twai twai twai…she landed the thick curtain rod on my head. I held the rod and when she forcefully dragged it from me, the rod edge tore my palm. She continued hitting me with the rod until she saw the blood. That’s when she calmed down and said “you caused all this now, I don’t like to put blood all over you my baby”
She cuddled me, went out to buy spirit and bandage for my hand. She rested my head on the breast and that was all. Iya nje Okunrin o. My sense flew away immediately i felt the breast softness… onisekuse ni mi walahi… to know what’s happening (you know how face me i face you works). She said she will leave but I should help her look for her earpiece that she kept in the room. We searched and searched and searched until night when my friends came back from the party. She didn’t go till the next morning because of the earpiece.
The next morning, she dipped her hand in a hole behind my wardrobe and brought out her earpiece. Oh, so you know where it’s being all along. She said “I purposely hid it there to buy me more time with you so i can fight you again and flog you with the rod, I enjoyed it”
That was just the end.
We slim guys are always being abused but we don’t talk because you people will still blame us and talk heal about us.
I’m wise now, i walk away at any stupid slight aggression. Once bitten twice shy.’
Many men have argued that many men are abused on a daily basis but finds it very difficult to open up as society expects them to be strong.
